 i think im going to write a song a song dedicated to all the people that have hated on me in my life because you have fueled my success you have helped me reach great heights in my life and i firmly believe that i couldn't have done it without you and i pray that you never leave my side as i continue to strive for greater success haters... this ones for you something has got to be wrong with me right?after reading the above love poem to the haters you're probably thinking who thinks like that anyway i mean... that's not realistic well it is realistic and i'm hoping by the end of this blog post i can get you to at least consider changing the way you look at the hate you get from others besides if your going to get hate you might as well turn it into your greatest asset here are my top 3 ways to use haters to fuel your success #1... more success = more hatersthat's the reality people are going to hate you for being better they are going to hate you for doing good and the better, stronger you become the more good you do the more hate your going to get when i accepted this was when i wanted to create more haters because to me haters equaled more success look if people are going to hate on you for doing something positive in your life so be it you can do nothing to change that don't even waist your time trying focus on accumulating haters because that means more wins in the win column become a hoarder of haters #2... spectators pay... players get paidthe problem with haters is they love to be spectators rather than participants they actually secretly wish that they had the guts to do the things and take the risk that your taking the risk that's paying off for you so vastly they have so little success in their own lives and want to live some kind of success through your eyes Seeing you achieve feats that they cannot possibly imagine for themselves or are too lazy to accomplish on their owns your success makes them feel uncomfortable so you become there target to make up for their deficiencies hate is the purest form of respect and admiration accept it embrace it love it the people that hate you actually wish they could be you #3... accept your hatersno matter what you do there will always be haters there's always going to be people in your life trying to drag you down as you become more and more successful there will be even more haters coming out of the wood every successful person has had their fair share of haters having haters is a part of success whether you like it or not learning how to accept them as a part of the deal for success is essential to using them as fuel Not everyone will think the same as you or have the same opinions as you do and even if they do think as you do some people will just hate on you for no reason at all it just is what it is so don't try to get less hate try to increase your hater rating how will you use what you've just read to fuel your success? leave me a comment below i'd really love to know check out the video version of this blog below for 1 bonus tip one using the haters as you fuel for success
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 what is one of the things that all successful people have in common they are extremely confident in their abilities they know that no matter what they will succeed they believe that they can overcome any obstacle placed in front of them some successful people border on egotistical confidence is non negotiable success just wont happen without it if you lack confidence you will miss many opportunities simply because you will fail to take action in this blog post i'm going to share with you my top 4 ways to become more confident #1...start with being thankfulstart off each day by being thankful for what you already have as high achievers we are constantly thinking about moving forward thinking about getting to the next level so much so that we forget to reflect on the things that we've already accomplished i find that when i start the day off with gratitude it puts me in the right frame of mind and sets my day off to add more accomplishments to be thankful for #2... journey outside your comfort zonecan you guess where the magic happens with in your life it happens outside of your comfort zone and there's a funny thing that happens when you step outside of that comfort zone more often it actually expands don't allow yourself to get caught in your comfort zone for too long because there's a funny thing that also happens if stay in your comfort zone for too long it starts to shrink think back to the last time you did something that made you uncomfortable maybe even terrified you after doing it you realized that it actually wasn't that bad all your wants and dreams are waiting for you but you have to take the first step out side of that little box that you've been hiding in #3... prepare for the set backsthe culprit that destroys our self confidence is not being knocked down but rather not getting back up after being knocked down realize now that set backs are a part of the plan they are setting you up to learn great lessons because some of the most valuable lessons in our lives come from negative situations don't put off trying something new because your anticipating it not working out some of the greatest successes in life didn't work out on the first try besides no one will remember all of your failures they will only remember your victories #4... choose your company WISELYwe are the sum of the 5-8 people that we spend the most time with are the people that you surround yourself with lifting you up or are they holding you down you've heard the saying before misery loves company but so does happiness surround yourself with people that inspire you not people that zap your desire spend time with high achievers not bottom dwellers get around people that can lead you to growth not those that want to stunt it which of these 4 tips will you be incorporating into your daily routine leave me a comment below i'd love to know check out the video version of this blog below to get one more bonus tip on how you can become more confident  the next time you find yourself complaining and feeling bad for yourself here is what i want you to do
STOP!!! no one cares! i repeat... NO ONE CARES!!! NO more pity party! NO more feeling sorry! the people that your complaining to got their own problems no one is going to save you from your troubles and they can't because they are YOUR troubles that means YOU must find a way do what necessary UNTIL! YOU determine when enough is enough and you know when enough is enough... when you reach your goals!  so... you say you want more out of life??? that's all fine and well but... why are you not getting more? why have you not become more? in this post i'm gonna talk directly about why the key word in the last sentence is "directly" that means that some of you reading this might get your feeling hurt but that's okay you've heard the saying before... "if the shoe fits then, you must wear it"! hopefully after reading this you will decide that those shoes of less sacrifice don't feel good anymore and you trade them in for a new bigger size that will force you to grow you ready??? let's jump right in! in order to get more, to become more you must give more!if you LOVE sleep raise your hands... being honest, i myself love sleep but... i don't love sleep more then i LOVE SUCCESS i am willing to sacrifice sleep so that i can be more successful when was the last time you woke up and hour earlier than you had to so that you could work on your dreams? it's been a long time right... and that my friend is why you have not tasted your success yet until you're willing to make yourself extremely uncomfortable for success you'll never enjoy a greater level of it! you have to be willing to skip what's fun and easy and go through what's difficult and necessary to enjoy greater success no one ever said that the journey would be easy the road to your goals is littered with obstacles and road blocks but just no that if you keep moving forward you'll eventually reach your goals sacrifice is the key if you want to see a change you have to change something give more... become more... get more! check out my short youtube video on this exact topic |